In this post I will be covering a common issue that many people have and what we can do and is actually working to solve the issue.
1. Letting Sex Just Suck
This is when people have sex and it actually sucks for them. The problem is that a lot of people in our culture put a lot of sexual energy into it and it can lead to something that is not enjoyable at all. This can be awkward if not handled very well. Just do your best not to let it suck and enjoy it when it does because then you will enjoy more and eventually you will find out why you did not enjoy it.
2. Using Oral Sex Too Much
When you're first into sex (or even just beginning) you are going to be horny so you are going to want a lot of sex. However, this is not the same as letting your body go wild too. The best thing is to keep it simple, stay on schedule, and have sex as often as you need to but to also take your partner's needs into account. They might need to go harder to please you than they have in the past.
3. Start
One of the best ways to learn about your body is to start. Start getting naked and touching yourself in some form or another (if you can) before you start taking your first sexual blowjob or vaginal penetration. You need to figure out what makes you want to be naked and take out your own parts. This will help to shape your body and get you to enjoy sex in a way you haven't been before. If you don't find it difficult at all to start touching yourself, you can take your first sexual BJ or vaginal penetration very slowly. After this, you may also want to start by giving yourself a little lube. As you start you move your body across the bed, try to feel how sensitive your penis is. Try to feel it as you finger yourself. If you find that it begins to move, turn your hand to the other side and start to stroke it. When you've finished masturbating it's OK to start taking your first sexual BJ or vaginal penetration very slow.
4. Fights and Violence
I want this to be clear about this because it's a really common mistake people make when dating. They assume it's the relationship that will help them have sex and not the other parts of the relationship. There is no other reason why you should have a fight over a girl than to use your time, money, and physical power so you can get that pussy. If you feel that you have gotten the pussy you wanted the first time around, that's not a deal breaker. Just don't let that happen again. The other guy can be there for you.
5. Being Obsessed
This is something I've heard a lot about in the last several years. When you find a girl that you really want to get with, and she isn't available to you for a while,
6 . She doesn't want the romantic element in your relationship, because she is so interested in your money.
She's willing to wait for you to find somebody else than yourself, or to stop fucking around in the bedroom.
7. She wants her life back and doesn't even want you to be happy.
She doesn't want you to be happy. When my girl has had a relationship with a guy who was "just fine" and didn't make it for her, she still went off to find someone else -- in fact, my girl was one girl who went off one fateful night to meet a guy who was "just fine" and found out she was a whore who was using men just to get the money she needed to survive in her new city. And in that moment, she realized that, not only am I not making her happy, but all those guys who are just fine to me are getting my girl off on the reg.
IN CONCLUSION
While most men I know have never had sexual intercourse with a woman, that doesn't mean it has never happened. What it means, is that many men seem to have an expectation that is unrealistic. They simply believe that if they can penetrate a woman that it is only a matter of time before they receive a sexual orgasm. The reality is, with practice, most men can get the hang of giving and receiving pleasure, and the first time your partner is penetrated is NOT the first time for many people.
I believe that there is a lot that you can learn from your boyfriend when it comes to how to increase the rate of ejaculation and it really starts inside your penis, and what happens after! I am sharing with you my husband's experience, what I noticed as a result, and how we moved past it.